PREMATURE BABIES: COMMON QUESTIONS

Parents of newborns usually have quite a few questions about their child's health and well-being. This is even more true for parents with premature infants. Here are some of the more common questions you may be struggling with.

Q: Why was my baby premature? Is it my fault?

A: Many mothers of premature infants worry that they might have done something during pregnancy that caused their babies to be born early. Smoking, drinking alcohol, and using drugs during pregnancy can contribute to prematurity; however, no one knows for sure why most premature babies are born early. If you smoke, have a drinking problem, or use drugs, get help right away. These behaviors can harm your baby after she is born, too. Your new baby needs you to be as healthy as possible.

Q: Will I be able to hold my baby?

A: All babies need to be touched, held, snuggled, and talked to. This can reduce stress and help their brains develop. Although your baby may look fragile, you should gently touch, hold, and cradle her if your doctor says it is OK.

Q: Why does my baby look different?

A: Babies who are born early do not look like full-term infants. Your baby's head may seem larger compared to the rest of her body. Her body will have less fat and her skin may look thin. Her blood vessels may show underneath. Also, your baby's facial features may appear sharper. But don't worry, she will begin to look like a typical newborn as she grows.

Q. Will I be able to breastfeed my baby?

A: Breast milk is the best nutrition for your baby . However, if your baby is not able to nurse at first, you can pump your milk and it can be given to her. Express your milk at the times when your baby would usually feed, so that your body becomes used to the schedule (usually about 8 times per day at the start). Most hospitals have breastfeeding experts to help you get started. Once you start to breastfeed, let your baby nurse often to build up your milk supply.

Q: What will happen to my baby when I leave the hospital without her?

A: Leaving your baby, even for a short time, can be difficult, but your baby is in good hands. You can visit often to spend time with your child. Use the time away from the hospital to rest and get ready for your baby's homecoming.

Q: Will my child always have problems because she was born early?

A: Though premature babies are at higher risk for some problems, most of them grow into healthy children. Early diagnosis, treatment, and ongoing care can give your child a brighter future.